the whole being negative and complaining about random irrelevant things
I STILL feel like I initiate everything
Its really annoying that you say "don't hold things back" but I feel like I can't talk to you because I'm so afraid of offending you
I feel really fucking stupid  because I'm always the one who's calling and hanging after you
don't be so  judgmental of stuff I like. why can't you just relax and go with it? why are you so against any girly things? it is NOT the same to not want to watch gory or depressing stuff. just bc it's not super ~artistic merit~ doesn't mean it's irrelevant or awful
it DOES feel like you're being dismissive when almost everything I say is "why would you do THAT/ noooo"