and then sometimes I am so completely irritated by my boyfriend. he is so fucking naive, so negative, sometimes I want to say get OVER it! I deal w/ this shit too but I don't let it take over my life! I am sad enough without having to deal with your ish too! get over it, GROW UP because I don't want to take care of you. I will not be together long term with someone that I always have to take care of.
I worried about all of the same things a few years ago, but I got over it. fuck those people, I don't care. I don't need anyone but me and that's ok! be tough! I will always be glad to help you and talk to you and be there for you, but I have enough to deal with making  myself keep it together, I cannot function as your entire self esteem too!