1. I have issues with always being afraid that I am bothering people/in the way. It makes it difficult to be my own person and do what I actually want to do.
2. learning to not hate other girls just because that's supposedly "what girls do" has been one of the best things ever. I love my female friends, and guess what? all of those "other girls" are individual people with personalities and ideas! I refuse to dislike other girls just because of my own insecurities. girls aren't born "catty" society makes it that way. (if you disagree you can go fuck yourself)